Lees.. I said I agree that through a relationship with Christ is where it all begins..
Matthew 22:37-40 "Jesus replied: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it:
'Love your neighbor as yourself. 'All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."
and from the Parable of the Good Samaritan in
Luke 10:36-37 "Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?" The expert in the law replied, "The one who had mercy on him." Jesus told him,
"Go and do likewise." We are indeed in relationship with Jesus, first and foremost. But Jesus asks of us, immediately, to 'love others'. The two greatest commandments are intimate AND inclusive.
But just because you have relationships doesn't mean you are a disciple of Jesus Christ.
I never said this nor did I imply it.
There is only one time in the Bible that Jesus tells us to hate.
Luke 14:26 "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes,
even his own life—he cannot be my disciple."
But since we also know we are to honor our parents.. this quote from Jesus in John opens up the fuller meaning of the Luke verse..
John 12:25 "The man who loves his life will lose it, while the
man who hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life."
No where does Jesus tell us to hate this world. Oh, he makes it clear others might hate us.. but hardly are we in the US persecuted for our faith as Jesus tells us we might be, or as those are, today, in other parts of the world.
But we also know what Jesus asks of us, regarding others...
Matthew 5:43-48 "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I tell you:
Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect."