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#273456 - 06/26/08 11:55 PM
The Mass. Teen Baby BOOM! Are celebrities to blame?
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From CBS news.com: A celebrity culture that seems to make being pregnant glamorous may have contributed in part to the thought process that led several students in a Massachusetts high school to make a pact to try to get pregnant together, according to one psychologist.
Seventeen Gloucester High students are now pregnant, more than four times as many as at this time last year, and almost half admitted to school officials that they agreed to the pact said Time Magazine. School Superintendent Christopher Farmer told CBS News correspondent Michelle Miller the teens feel, "Motherhood gives them status." The recent movies "Juno," which won an Oscar, and "Knocked Up," both deal with teen pregnancy and ”appear to take away the stigma," And, "Teenage pop idols getting pregnant before matrimony appears to have given their celebrity a boost," The prosecutors in Mass. have said that they might go after the fathers because having sex with a girl under age 16 is statuatory rape under the law. Should the males be charged? No, because obviously they were lured in to having sex (ok, so most at that age are ready and willing anyway). Do I think they were trapped? YES. What guy isn't going to say yes to a girl who is willing and determined to get pregnant? Using a guy for sex...hmmm, the tide sure has turned! I wonder if they considered the 7-10 (or longer) jail sentence that may await them after their "contribution" to society is born? While these girls claim that it was just coincidence, I think that celebrities such as Nicole Ritchie and Jamie Lynne Spears are partly to blame for glorifying motherhood at such a young age. While they have the money and status to sustain a child, the teens who idolize these celebrities do not have the support of private nurses and an overflowing bank account. It is also partly the parents fault for not being more attentive to what their daughters were doing. Many are oblivious to who their children are talking to on the cell phone and on the internet. Are we so out of sync with our children that we've lost all communication and personal contact with them? What happened to the days when we all sat at the dinner table together and caught up with everyone's day? Although Dr Phil is nauseating, I agree with him when he says that it's the parents fault for not paying attention to their kids behaviors or having basic conversations with them about sex and its ramifications.
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#273539 - 06/27/08 05:07 PM
Re: The Mass. Teen Baby BOOM! Are celebrities to blame?
[Re: Mystic]
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First let me say, Where are the parents at?
I just asked the question though I already know a couple of the answers. A lot of these parents are so consumed with themselves or the business of others, they totally ignore the kids.
I understand that some parents are concerned with keeping a roof over their heads, or feeding their families, or real important matters, these parents have a legit reason or excuse.
But I'm talking about the parents who are more concerned with the latest gossip, or are out there looking for their next girlfriend/boyfriend, or the parents out there chasing drugs or alchohol ( Or both), or the parent who complains about how bad life is going for them while watching "Jerry Springer" all day and not trying to improve their lives.
Last parents should never let t.v. babysit their kids. Children are easily influenced and t.v. is the method. We let our children see all these disfuctional people on t.v. ( Which glamorizes this behavior).
If anything at the least, parents should use t.v. to show their children, how not to act.
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#273581 - 06/27/08 08:22 PM
Re: The Mass. Teen Baby BOOM! Are celebrities to blame?
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We've been pummled non stop in the local news up here with this crap. The national news got it wrong. They took what the principal said and absolutely ran with it. There was no pact amongst the girls to get pregnant. None. There WAS a pact after the fact for the sluts, er, pregnant girls to support each other after they had their babies but there was no conspiracy for them all to get pregnant at the same time. It's more sensationalism on the part of the national news but trust me, it's a bunch of nonsense. That said, I do take exception to this: I think that celebrities such as Nicole Ritchie and Jamie Lynne Spears are partly to blame for glorifying motherhood at such a young age. You can't compare Jamie Lynne and Nicole Ritchie. Nicole Ritchie is 26 years old. Jamie Lynne is what, 16? You also need to take into account that Jamie Lynne is from Kentucky. It's very normal for girls from Kentucky to be pregnant at 16. I hardly think there's any glorification going on.
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#273609 - 06/28/08 01:16 AM
Re: The Mass. Teen Baby BOOM! Are celebrities to blame?
[Re: Mystic]
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Perhaps celebrities are an encouragement to many kids, and I'm sure that some parents are part of the problem. Lets face it though, kids are going to do what they want regardless of how much we, as parents talk.
My daughter made me a grandmother when she was 15. Not because I wasn't paying attention. She was supposed to be spending the night with a friend, the friends mom helped her take off for the weekend with her boyfriend. I only found my daughter (the next day) after threatening to call the law. She spent one night with the bum.
So, I had a baby that was 10 months old, and ended up breastfeeding my grand-daughter because she couldn't tolerate formula (her mother was to young to produce the milk she needed). Did all of this happen because my daughter was unaware of what could happen from her sexual actions? NO! Because I wasn't paying attention? NO!
She thought that she was in love, and if she had a baby I would let her marry the love of her life. And he had a car. Wow, all of the markings for success.
At that time there weren't any celebrities having babies, not young ones. None of her friends were having babies. So, blame whomever one wishes, in reality, it's the child that decides what will or will not be.
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